Reading

  • The 10 Best Books I Read in 2021

    For the first time in my life, this year I decided to start tracking the books I read. I had never seen the appeal, but now I do! I tend to read really quickly, and then almost immediately forget a lot of what I read. Being able to see the list of books is not only helpful for remembering the details of those books, but also helps me remember the books I loved or that struck a chord. 

    And it also is very helpful for making “best of” lists, it turns out! So, in case you’re looking for some great reads in 2022, I thought I’d share the 10 best books I read in 2021. I had a hard time narrowing it down and was tempted to make it a “15 best books” list, but I heroically chopped some books after all. 

    About half of these were 2021 new-releases, and the other half are older books that came my way for whatever reason. Hopefully one or a few of these will call your name! 

    (Also: I’m trying to be better about including trigger warnings for each book I recommend, but have a hard time remembering when a book needs them and for what (see: aforementioned memory issues). So, this is me doing my best, I hope I get them all!)

    BEST BOOKS 2021

    Olga Dies Dreaming by Xochitl Gonzalez

    If I had to pick a favorite, this would probably be it. I just looked and this one doesn’t actually release until Jan. 4, 2022 (I got an early copy through Book of the Month), but I HIGHLY recommend grabbing it in the new year if you get a chance! Olga and her brother Prieto are high-profile New Yorkers: he’s a congressman, she’s a wedding planner for the super wealthy. It’s their background as hijos of their radical Boricua mom (a former Young Lord, who left them to be raised by their grandmother while she fought for la causa in Puerto Rico and beyond) that was the most interesting to me, though. I LOVED how this story weaved family secrets, political corruption, activism, a little romance and The American Dream™. I also appreciated how the novel is so rich with Puerto Rican culture and history– I learned a lot! 

    (TW for vulgar language, (implied) rape & sexual assault, death of a parent, drug use) 

    Transportes González e hija by María Amparo Escandón

    ​​Libertad González is serving a prison sentence in Mexico, where the rest of her fellow inmates have revealed (sometimes proudly) the reason they’re locked up. Libertad, however, can’t find a way to share her story until she opens a random book from the prison’s library and begins to “read.” Thus the prison club de lectura is born, where each week Libertad unfolds the next installment of her life story while turning the pages of random books. Born and raised on the road with her father (a former professor of literature who fled Mexico after a frightening experience in his past, to become a trucker in the U.S.), Libertad is a tremendous character that I fell completely in love with. And honestly I could say the same for a lot of the other eccentric female prisoners! I read this in Spanish which I HIGHLY recommend, but if that doesn’t appeal it’s also available in English as “Gonzalez and Daughter Trucking Co.” The storytelling in this one!

    (Another TW here for misogyny, violence, and death)

    Infinite Country by Patricia Engel

    When the book starts like this: “It was her idea to tie up the nun,” you know it’s going to be good. It’s the story of a Colombian family—half in the U.S. and half in Colombia—and I loved the way this book highlights so many different immigration experiences: a deported father, an undocumented mother, kids raised in the U.S. with and without U.S. citizenship, and a U.S. citizen raised in Colombia.  Besides the fact that it was a joy to read such a nuanced immigration story (which is no small thing), the writing is incredible! (The mom in the story muses that her daughters, one born in Colombia but raised in the U.S., the other born in the U.S. but raised in Colombia, are like “repotted flowers, creatures forced to live in the wrong habitat.”) And though the author doesn’t shy away from writing the pain, overall this story is a gorgeous portrayal of hope and one family’s commitment to each other (that I couldn’t put down and blazed through in a couple of days).

    (TW for sexual assault/rape and I think also alcoholism)

    Layoverland by Gabby Noone

    This book tells the story of Beatrice Fox, aka Bea. After she “ruins” the life of her younger sister Emmy, she goes for a tearful drive and gets in a car accident and… dies. But the story doesn’t end there! Instead of ending up in heaven or hell, she’s sent to purgatory (which in Layoverland is… a giant airport). To atone for her sins on Earth, she’s tasked with a role as part of the Memory Experience team, where she has to help 5,000 people resolve whatever issue is holding them back from moving on to heaven. Of course, one of the first people she’s paired with is a fellow teen named Caleb. It turns out, he’s the dude that crashed into her. And as much as she would love to see him suffer instead of helping him reach the pearly gates, in true YA fashion, a blossoming romance complicates things. This was a perfect vacation rom-com. 

    Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption by Bryan Stevenson

    I had been meaning to read Just Mercy for a couple of years, but because I knew basically what it was about, it took me a while to get to it and also quite a while to get through it during YET ANOTHER pandemic year. It’s a heavy book, but I’m also so glad I finally read it. If you haven’t heard of this one yet (or watched the movie version), it’s a powerful story about the Equal Justice Initiative (EJI) and Bryan Stevenson, the lawyer who founded it. Just Mercy tells the story of the early days of the EJI, when the organization was just getting started defending the poor & the wrongly incarcerated. I learned so much about mass incarceration and the death penalty in the U.S. (I also cried multiple times, but hopefully understand better what kind of reforms are needed). 

    (TW for horrific racism, violence)  

    Outlawed by Anna North

    I thought the premise of this book was really interesting: a “Speculative Western,” set in an alternate version of old-timey ‘Merica. It’s 1894, and in this imagined version of U.S. history, a woman’s fate is tied to her ability to bear children (to replace the enormous number of deaths from the Great Flu). And while Anna, the protagonist, has a bright future as an apprentice midwife, after a year of marriage with no baby, she has to flee everything she knows in order to avoid being incarcerated or hanged as a witch like all “barren women” are. She ends up joining the notorious Hole in the Rock Gang, a group of women and gender-fluid outcasts that have banded together as outlaws. This book was billed as super feminist, but it’s definitely not of the intersectional feminist variety (leans pretty “straight white feminist” IMO). I did find it very entertaining though! 

    Of Women and Salt by Gabriela Garcia

    Listen, you already know I love a good book about immigration! Following three generations of Cuban women from Cuba to Miami to Mexico (and a few places in between), this book is short-ish but really packs some powerful meditations on how immigration shapes the lives of our mujeres. While Jeanette battles addiction in present-day Miami, her Cuban immigrant mother Carmen tries to figure out how to help her (while also fiercely guarding the family secrets that made her leave Cuba in the first place). We also get the stories of Jeanette’s family members in Cuba, from her tatarabuela María Isabel rolling cigars in 19th century Cuba, to her present-day cousin. And a few chapters are dedicated to little Ana, the Salvadoreña neighbor Jeanette brings into her home after her mom is detained by ICE. If you’re thinking that’s a lot of storylines to pack into ~200 pages, you’re right; but author Gabriela Garcia writes her characters so generously that the lives of all of these mothers and daughters feel rich and true. Well worth the read! 

    (TW for some violent scenes)

    Dumplin’ by Julie Murphy

    My cousin sent this one along and it was just the perfect book to read over summer vacation! Willowdean, aka Will, is the self-proclaimed fat daughter of a beauty pageant mom. She’s always been at home in her own skin, has zero interest in the beauty pageant life, and is happiest hanging out with her all-American beauty of a BFF, Ellen. When Will gets a new job and meets Private School Bo, a hot jock, she’s surprised to find that he’s as into her as she is into him. It weirdly freaks her out, so she decides to reclaim her confidence by entering the Miss Clover City beauty pageant (inspiring a lot of other unlikely candidates to do so, too). Lots of Dolly Parton songs and references in this book, which just added to the awesome. This one is also a movie, apparently!

    The Lincoln Highway by Amor Towles

    Do you want to go on a road trip? Then pick this one up! It’s 1954 in Nebraska, and 18-year-old Emmett Watson has just finished his time at a work farm for accidentally killing a boy that was bullying him. His only family is his 8-year-old brother Billy, since their mom is long gone and their dad recently deceased. Emmett’s plan is to pick up Billy and head to Texas to make a new life there. But when the warden drives away, lo and behold, two friends from the work farm have hidden themselves in the trunk of the warden’s car and have a very different plan for how the next few days, and their own “fresh starts,” should look. Enjoyed this one so much I passed it on to my dad! Amor Towles is a very talented storyteller. 

    (TW for suicide) 

    Las hijas del capitán by María Dueñas

    Last but not least is this giant! It took me a while to get into the story (and even longer to get through all ~800 pages), but once I did I was hooked. In 1936 NYC, the Arenas sisters & their mother have just migrated from Spain to join their father, who after years of sailing the world doing random jobs to support his family, has settled in New York and decided to run a restaurant. But almost immediately after they arrive, papá Emilio is killed in an accident, leaving his family to try to figure out a way in this new world. The sisters–Victoria, Mona and Luz–were super unhappy to leave Spain in the first place, so as you can imagine this new development is extremely unwelcome. I’ve loved Maria Dueñas’ previous books and so enjoyed reading about the Arenas sisters’ dreams, adventures, disappointments and feisty fight for survival in this one. 

    (TW for sexual assault)

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    Et voila! The 10 best books I read in 2021! I didn’t mean for this post to be soooo long but apparently I have a hard time summarizing books I loved. If you end up reading any of these, let me know what you think!

    P.S. How to read more books, in case you need to make space in your life for reading before picking any of these up!

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  • Six Books by Latinas to Read This Summer

    Pretty much my favorite thing in the whole wide world is a good book list. 

    But then, you probably know that about me already. 

    And summer is an ESPECIALLY crucial time to have great reading options available! To me, nothing says “vacation” louder than a stack of wonderful books just waiting for me to read them.

    (The other day my husband and I went out of town for three days to celebrate our anniversary and between the two of us, we took 7 BOOKS, which was… excessive. But did feel VERY vacation-y!)

    So today I thought I’d share some great books I’ve read and recommend for your summer reading list—all written by Latina authors! I was so happy to find that it wasn’t difficult at all to find several recent books by Latinas in multiple genres to include in this guide, which gives me great hope for the future.

    BOOKS BY LATINAS TO READ THIS SUMMER

    Old novel: Dominicana by Angie Cruz

    I just think it’s the worst when book lists are filled with new-releases that you have to wait 100 years to get from the library, so although “Dominicana” is actually only a couple of years old, it should be fairly easy to get your hands on this one. Ana Canción was never one of those dominicanas who dreamed of moving to the States. But when Juan Ruiz (a man twice her age) proposes and promises to take her to New York City, she has to accept the opportunity to move away from the place where hope for a better future is ever-dwindling; not just for her, but for her whole family. This was an incredibly insightful portrait of what it means to be an immigrant in America, and once again, beautiful writing by Angie Cruz. 

    Image of the book "Infinite Country."

    New novel: Infinite Country by Patricia Engel

    This book hooked me from its very first line: “It was her idea to tie up the nun.” Ahh! This 2021 release about a Colombian family—half in the U.S. and half in Colombia—is just so, so good. I loved the way this book highlights so many different immigration experiences: a deported father, an undocumented mother, kids raised in the U.S. with and without U.S. citizenship, and a U.S. citizen raised in Colombia. And though the author doesn’t shy away from writing the pain, overall this story is a gorgeous portrayal of hope and one family’s commitment to each other (that I couldn’t put down and blazed through in a couple of days). Besides the fact that it was a joy to read such a nuanced immigration story (which is no small thing), the writing is incredible! Highly recommend. 

    YA/Fantasy: Lobizona by Romina Garber

    Fantasy is not usually my first choice, but I picked this one up because A) my friend Madison said it was really good and B) I wanted to have a few different genres represented in this book list. And I have to admit, a couple of times when I was reading, I’d look up and be like “I am reading a book about werewolves right now…” But then the story was so engrossing, I’d shrug and pick it back up. Props to Romina Garber for crafting an excellent story that weaves magic, social commentary, immigration, Argentine folklore and bilingualism! As a not-YA, I’m not the target audience for this book but I still read it in two days and will absolutely read the sequel, coming out this August! 

    Romance: The Beautiful Ones by Silvia Moreno-Garcia

    I read a review of this book that described it as “kind of like a Jane Austen novel with a splash of telekinesis thrown in,” which IMHO is spot-on. Antonina “Nina” Beaulieu is a fish out of water, sent to the city of Loisail to stay with her cousin and his wife, Valérie, who is supposed to oversee her first Grand Season where she will hopefully find a husband. When she’s drawn to Hector Auvray, a performer who shares the same telekinetic abilities she has, it becomes clear she’s been dropped straight into a world she’s both ill-prepared and ill-fitted for. This is a classic love triangle with several twists, and while it is slower-paced (especially at the beginning), it’s just a very easy romance to read. I blazed through it in a couple of days at the beach, and it was just a perfect light vacation read. Solid writing by Moreno-Garcia, who apparently never writes books in the same genre twice! 

    Memoir: My Broken Language by Quiara Alegría Hudes

    Originally I picked this book up because Quiara Alegría Hudes (along with Lin-Manuel Miranda) wrote the excellent musical “In the Heights.” TBH I didn’t know anything else about it, and was very pleasantly surprised by the gorgeous writing of this book (what else would you expect from a prize-winning lyricist, though, right?). I especially loved all of the unapologetic and unexplained Spanish in Hudes’ coming-of-age story as a half-Jewish, half-Puerto Riqueña growing up with her Santera mom in Philly. Warning that there’s quite a bit of swearing and some strong thematic elements to this memoir!

    Image of the book "La casa de los espíritus."

    En español: La casa de los espíritus by Isabel Allende

    If I haven’t yet convinced you to read something by Isabel Allende (honestly my life’s mission), then just go ahead and start with this absolute CLASSIC! This book is magical realism perfection, and follows the Trueba family through four generations, from post-World War I Chile through the Pinochet coup which overthrew the Allende government in 1973. Written in masterful prose by Isabel Allende, this book is (with good reason!) one of the most important and beloved Latin American works of the twentieth century. Whether we’re reading about ethereal Clara and her violent husband Esteban; their daughter, Blanca (and her forbidden love for a man named Pedro Tercero); or granddaughter Alba, a beautiful and ambitious girl who wants to usher Chile into its revolutionary future—Allende grips us in this sweeping saga. (TW for some strong thematic elements including rape and abortion.) 

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    Feliz verano and happy reading! Hope one or more of these books by Latinas is calling your name!

    P.S. 8 (more) books for your summer reading list, because can you ever really have too many?

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  • Two Beautiful Spanish Poetry Books For Kids

    A few years ago, I wrote a post all about some favorite Spanish poetry books for kids (it’s one of the most popular posts on this blog!). 

    But since then I’ve discovered MORE beautiful Spanish poetry books, so in honor of National Poetry Month this April I thought I would share a couple of them here. 

    Early on in the COVID pandemic, I read one homeschooler’s impassioned article in defense of “Poetry Tea Time.” I knew my kids would get a kick out of at least the tea cups and the snacks, and while I was fully prepared for them to be less excited about the poetry, it’s actually been really sweet how much they love it. We’ve adapted this practice to just general “fiesta de lectura,” (any book will do!), but when I remember to pull out poetry books I feel very virtuous and pleased with myself, haha. 

    Little girl reading Spanish poetry books for kids.

    These books below are a phenomenal resource!

    TWO (NEW) FAVORITE SPANISH POETRY BOOKS FOR KIDS

    Poemas para niños chicos

    We have the kindle version of this one, and while I wish we had a hardcover (team paper books forever), it’s kind of nice to be able to pull out little poems on the go. (Not that we go places these days (#pandemic) but soon!) During the month of April I’m trying to read a poem (with the kids or by myself) each day, and who better to read than one of the most important Spanish poets and dramatists of the 20th century!

    Bichopoemas y otras bestias

    This book (divided in sections of animals that are “voladores,” “acuáticos,” “reptadores” and “rugidores”) is also so wonderful! The rhymes are fun, and very kid-friendly. The vocabulary in this book is also fairly simple, so it’s a good one for younger kids and beginning readers. This one has really interesting illustrations all done in collage! 

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    I hope this is helpful! I’m excited to really dive into poetry this month and I’m always happy to include the kids, too. And as always I’d love to hear about any of your favorites! 

    P.S. Here’s that earlier roundup of poetry books in Spanish again, in case you’d like to see some others we’ve loved. 

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  • #3before3, a Parenting Hack!

    Of all the things I thought I would do as a parent, reading to my kids was for sure top of the list. But can I confess something? I definitely thought I would be a “bedtime stories” type of mom and so far… I’m kind of not? 

    At this very moment, my kids are newly-6, 3, and 1.5. And for basically all of my parenting career until now, the only book I wanted to be reading after 7 pm was MINE! With a baby, then toddler and baby, then preschooler, toddler and baby… by the time bedtime rolled around I just needed everyone to be in bed as fast as possible. You know, for my sanity. 

    Mom reading #3before3 with her 3 daughters.

    But because reading with the girls was still very important to me, I came up with a little strategy (and then made it a hashtag, as one does): #3before3! Every day, I do my best to read 3 picture books with the kids before 3 pm. This only takes 10-15 minutes and it’s such a welcome little break for all of us!  

    Here are the pros:

    • We get to connect in a meaningful (but easy and chill) way during the day
    • It’s doable because we’re all home anyway (hello, entire year of COVID pandemic) and I can pick a time when my kids are excited to sit down and read with me—not always the case when they’re tired
    • When bedtime comes around I can get those children IN BED just a little quicker, hallelujah amen! 

    I can’t recommend this highly enough! We’re now halfway through March, AKA National Reading Month, and I want to challenge you to try reading #3before3 for the rest of the month and see how it works for your family! 

    P.S. Now that the kids are getting a little older, we do sometimes read together before bedtime and I’m finally like OH, I can see why people like this! (Some of our favorite Spanish bedtime stories here, in case you’d like to see.) But it’s still nice to know that we did our reading early in the day, and that way if I’m fried at bedtime or the kids are up late for whatever reason, I don’t feel bad about skipping the bedtime story. #3before3, it just might change your life!

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  • Reading Picture Books to a Baby

    I’m going to tell you something that may surprise you. 

    If I had to choose between reading a board book or a picture book to a baby, I’d choose a picture book almost every time. 

    I know! It’s shocking! 

    “But why?” you might ask. “Aren’t board books specifically designed for babies, in that they’re relatively indestructible and also very short?” And the answer is yes, of course! We have and love lots of board books. But because they’re SO short, I tend to transition my babies to picture books fairly early on because, well, I get really bored reading the same 7 sentences in board books over and over for months. 

    I’ve said this so many times, but one of the key things to make reading with kids sustainable is making sure it’s enjoyable for EVERYONE, including the parent. So you & your child may both be ready for longer stories and bigger books earlier than you think, even if they can’t quite grasp those books in their chubby hands. (Which, given babies’ page-ripping tendencies, is probably for the best.)

    Here are my seven best tips for reading picture books to a baby while still keeping the pages (and your sanity) intact. 

    • You don’t have to read every word. Picture books can be lengthy, so don’t feel like you have to read every single word on every single page. Especially when it’s a book my baby is experiencing for the first time, I’ll often just summarize the story. 
    • Point to pictures. One thing about picture books is that the illustrations are JUST as important as the text (for pre-literate babies, probably more so!). And as adult readers, we tend not to pay all that much attention to them because we’re busy reading the words. So sometimes I’ll ignore the story almost entirely and just focus on pointing out interesting things in the illustrations (“Look at the red car!” “Where’s the mouse?”). This makes reading picture books to a baby or toddler super interactive!
    • Lap sitting may not be the best choice. This is the vision: you sit with your baby on your lap or next to you while you snuggle and read peacefully. Right? It does sound nice, but it’s not great for protecting paper pages (and not super realistic for older babies that just want to be on the move). Try getting your baby used to longer stories by reading as you lay face-up on the ground, holding the book above your head, or letting your baby crawl around and do her thing as you read. And for maximum book-protection… you can always read while the baby is strapped in a high chair! 
    • It’s ok if your baby appears to be paying zero attention. Don’t take it personally if your baby or toddler is doing everything but sitting quietly and listening to the story! He can still hear you and is absorbing much more than you think. 
    • Read enthusiastically. Make animal sounds! Read with drama! Break out the accents and silly voices! All of it will be so fun for your baby and highly entertaining for any other family members that happen to be in the vicinity, too. 😉
    • Keep the board books around. You never want to make a hard jump between any level of books- board books to picture books or picture books to chapter books. Just go ahead and add new picture books to the rotation. When my babies get to the “grabbing” stage, I like to hand them a board book that they can play with, chew, and slobber on while I read the picture book.  
    • Calma, mi vida, con calma. It’s so hard not to be annoyed when a book gets ripped by an enthusiastic baby or toddler, but remember that this is just how your little one explores and experiences new things. There’s always tape! He’ll figure out how to be gentle eventually. The goal is to have a kid that loves books, not one that lives in fear of messing them up.

    Have I convinced you yet? Reading picture books to a baby is not only doable, it’s important! You might not be able to see it right away, but you’re setting an amazing foundation for your baby to be a lifelong reader.

    P.S. Here’s where you can find the BEST Spanish picture books in case you’d like to try these tips out!

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  • 8 Books for your Summer Reading List

    “Whatcha doing?” my husband Josh asked me the other day. “Oh, just maxing out my holds requests at the library,” I responded.

    I love making a great big summer reading list! I never really get to all of the books on it (sometimes this is because I’m #658 on the library waitlist…), but half the fun is just making the list in the first place.

    Summer reading list book flat lay

    But what I don’t love? Is wasting my precious reading time on a mediocre book. ¡No gracias! I used to feel this weird obligation to finish every book I started (is this a Capricorn thing?), but now I just give myself permission to stop reading if it’s not doing anything for me.

    But it’s always nicer to start off with a book that I’m pretty sure I’ll love. 🙂 These 8 below have been some of my favorites that I’ve read recently (or recently-ish), and I think they’d be perfect for YOUR summer reading list!

    Almost none of these are new releases (in fact, some are quite old), so hopefully you can avoid being #658 on the library waitlist and actually read them in the summer instead of, say, January when it’s finally your turn.

    BOOKS BY A LATINX AUTHOR:

    The Book of Unknown Americans by Cristina Henríquez

    This book follows the story of Arturo and Alma Rivera and their beautiful daughter Maribel, who all move to the U.S. from their small town in Mexico. After a horrific accident that left fifteen-year-old Maribel with a brain injury, they’ve waited and sacrificed to get the right papers to come to los Estados Unidos, the country that they hope will help her get better. Amid all of the struggles and difficulties the Rivera family faces in this new country, one bright spot is their friendship with their Panamanian neighbors, the Toro family. Mayor Toro (their teenage son) and Maribel become especially close. But all of those relationships are tested as a number of incidents occur which set in motion a chain of events that will change each of their lives forever. I really liked how the author wove in testimonios of other men and women (neighbors in their apartment complex who also immigrated to the States) throughout the book. This is a short-ish, engrossing read that goes by fast!

    The Seamstress: A Novel by Frances de Pontes Peebles

    The Seamstress was released 10 years ago, but I just discovered it this year after reading the author’s newest book. Sisters Emília and Luzia dos Santos start off as seamstresses in a small town in backcountry Brazil. Left orphaned at a young age, they live with their aunt, who teaches them how to mend, cut and create. Both long for escape, and both find it: Luzia is (willingly) abducted by a band of outlaw cangaceiros (bandits) led by the infamous Hawk; and Emília (the family romantic) finangles her way into a marriage with the son of a wealthy and politically powerful doctor and moves to the big city. Though the sisters’ lives diverge in drastic ways, they keep track of each other through occasional mentions in the newspaper (Emília in the society section, Luzia in the headlines when the cangaceiros do something particularly brutal or barbaric). This is an epic, long novel (600+ pages), but I was so engrossed in all of it and thought about the book for a long time after I finished it. I definitely wouldn’t classify this as a “light” read (both the story and the writing are intense), but it’s excellently written and the author does a great job of creating strong, believable characters and situating them perfectly in the context of 1930’s Brazil.

    MEMOIRS:

    Love Warrior: A Memoir by Glennon Doyle

    I’m not the first person to recommend Glennon Doyle’s memoir (though I am in excellent company because Oprah picked it for her book club), but I couldn’t leave it off this summer reading list! Starting with her early descent into bulimia and alcoholism, this book takes us through Glennon’s beautiful, brutal journey to get sober for marriage and motherhood. Three kids later, she discovers her husband is wrestling his own addictions: to porn and infidelity. What makes the story so riveting is her account of how she– and he– rebuild their lives, together and separately. Doyle started off as a blogger who gained a massive following for her vulnerable writing, and that honesty and warmth totally shines through in her book.

    At Home in the World: Reflections on Belonging While Wandering the Globe by Tsh Oxenreider

    I picked up this book because we have several friends who have done some version of what Oxenreider and her family did: packing up a house and spending a year wandering the world. I’m not sure that type of travel is for me (give me a home base and a routine for my kids, please). But I still loved following the Oxenreiders as they load up their three kids and set off on an adventure, starting in Beijing and ending in London. The most interesting part of this book for me was the way Oxenreider worked to balance her love of travel, of seeing the world and exploring new places, with her love of roots, stability, and community. It’s a tension I feel (and, I suspect, so do many others), and her reflections on family and home and community really resonated with me. I also really like her thesis that travel isn’t mutually exclusive with having kids (preach!). Pick this one up if you want a way to satisfy your wanderlust from your couch this summer (though the end result might be that you book a plane ticket to see the world— you’ve been warned).

    Stack of summer reading list books
    BOOKS SET OUTSIDE THE UNITED STATES:

    The Last Days of Café Leila by Donia Bijan

    I grabbed this off the library shelf on a whim solely because my oldest daughter is named Leila, and was pleasantly surprised by it! Noor is a (happily— or so she thinks) married doctor living in San Francisco, but a personal crisis leaves her reeling. Dragging her unwilling teenage daughter along, she decides to take a long-overdue visit to her father, Zod, in Iran. As Noor rejoins the world of Cafe Leila, the restaurant her family has been running for three generations and the backdrop of her Persian childhood, she must rethink who she is and figure out her plan for the future. I’m a big fan of immigrant stories, and this one beautifully weaves together Iran’s complex history with the more domestic story of food, family and homecoming.

    The Tea Girl of Hummingbird Lane by Lisa See

    In this book we read the parallel storylines of Li-yan, who grew up in a remote Chinese village among the Akha people, and her daughter Hayley, adopted by an American couple in California. As a teenager Li-yan, one of the few educated girls on her mountain, violates Akha cultural taboos in several significant ways, including having a baby out of wedlock (and later marrying the baby’s father despite her family’s disapproval). Rather than standing by tradition, Li-yan wraps the baby in a blanket, tucks in a tea cake, and leaves her near an orphanage in the nearest city. The rest of the book is the story of Li-yan’s emergence from the insularity of her village and her introduction to modern (1990’s) China; it’s also the story of Hayley’s search for answers as she grows up the privileged, well-loved Asian daughter of a White couple. Ultimately, they both find what they are seeking in the tea that has shaped their family’s destiny for generations.

    LIBROS EN ESPAÑOL

    El tiempo entre costuras by María Dueñas

    This is the book that inspired one of my faaaavorite TV series (same name in Spanish, or “The Time in Between” in English.). Sira is the daughter of a Spanish seamstress. When Spain becomes politically fraught leading up to the Spanish Civil War, Sira ends up escaping the country with her gorgeous lover and heads to Morocco. However, she soon finds herself abandoned, penniless, and heartbroken in an exotic land. This story follows Sira as she reinvents herself and opens a successful atelier in Morocco, but the adventure doesn’t end there. At the height of World War II, Sira’s new friends persuade her to return to Madrid and adopt an entirely new identity, embarking on the most dangerous undertaking of her career. A little bit love story, a little bit spy story, and lots of beautiful clothes, I couldn’t put this book down! It’s on the long side, so if you’re looking for an epic summer reading project I think this would be a great option.

    Flatlay of book "El tiempo entre costuras"

    Largo pétalo de mar by Isabel Allende

    Obviously no summer reading list of mine would be complete without something by Isabel Allende, and luckily she has a brand new book out this month! Coincidentally, this story is also set during the Spanish Civil War. Víctor Dalmau, a young doctor, finds himself fleeing Barcelona along with his pianist friend Roser Bruguera aboard the Winnipeg (the ship that poet Pablo Neruda commissioned to sail from France to Chile with two thousand Spanish refugees aboard). Roser and Víctor had to marry before boarding the Winnipeg to be allowed aboard, but despite the fact that it was a marriage of convenience they settle in Chile and live happily for several decades. However, when President Salvador Allende is outed in a military coup, the threat of a new dictatorship puts everything they have worked for at risk.  

    Any good recommendations for me? I’d love to add another book (or 15) to my summer reading list!

    P.S. How to read more books 🙂 (in case you’re feeling crunched for time!)

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  • Crucial Lessons from “168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think”

    I’ll start off by saying that 168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think is not a new book. It was written in 2010, but I happened to come across it in January of this year. It seemed like the perfect thing to read as I was thinking about what I wanted to accomplish in 2019 and how I wanted to spend my time.

    I loved, loved this book! It gave me so much to think about and some solid strategies to manage my time a little better (desperately needed, especially with a new baby due in a few weeks).

    Cover of the book 168 Hours: You Have More Time Than You Think

    The book starts off with a discussion about the common modern narrative about how nobody has enough time. Laura Vanderkam, the author, kind of pokes fun at an article in a magazine that asked people what they would do with 15 extra minutes in their day (relearn how to play the flute! write thank you letters! read a book!). She points out that if we’re scrambling for 15 extra minutes to write a thank you letter, no wonder we feel completely overwhelmed and crunched for time when it comes to achieving big things like building a career, spending quality time with our kids, or exercising consistently.

    Needless to say, she strongly disagrees with this narrative and argues that the 168 hours we have in a week is plenty of time to achieve our career goals, spend enough time with our families, fit in exercise and hobbies, AND get enough sleep every night. And then she gives some pretty convincing examples of people who do all of that.

    If you’re raising an eyebrow and feeling like that’s impossible, I highly recommend reading this book! The reason she comes up with 168 hours is that 24 hours seems like such a short amount of time to try to cram everything in, but the reality is that our natural rhythms and schedules are often made up of weeks more than individual days. Plus 168 hours gives us so much more flexibility than one day.

    This book was so helpful to me (I’m still thinking about it months after I finished it). So I decided to share some of her main points here:

    • Keep track of your time, hour by hour, for a week or two so you can see how you’re actually spending your time. This was both gratifying and rather eye-opening for me. On the one hand, I was like “Oh hey, I’m doing tons of stuff!” (things that by the nature of spending most of the day at home with very little kids are immediately undone, you know, but still). But I also realized that I was spending way too much time online. I love Instagram, but I hadn’t realized I was using Facebook much more than necessary (especially since it’s an app that I don’t even particularly like). I immediately put screen time & app limits on my phone and was amazed at how much it helped.
    • Figure out what you’re best at doing— your core competencies— and spend your time doing that. Nobody is better than you at nurturing relationships with your kids and partner, so maximize your time doing that. Laundry on the other hand? That can probably be done by someone else just as well as by you. Most of us do it because we have to, not because we really enjoy it, so it’s a perfect example of something you can spend a minimal amount of time doing. What are you really great at and what can you outsource?
    • “Busy” does not = “productive.” I think most of us feel like we’re doing a lot, but being busy doesn’t mean we actually did much that was important during our 168 hours. I love the term “procrasticleaning” because it describes what I find myself doing so often— clearing my kids’ junk off the floor or organizing emails in my inbox to avoid doing what I actually should be doing. She also slams inefficient meetings that could be finished in 20 minutes if everyone stayed on task, time spent at your desk multi-tasking between screens, and doing fairly unimportant busy work. All of this, she says, leads to us feeling like we’re ALWAYS working, when in reality if we were more efficient and focused with our time, we’d probably get the same amount of things done in a lot less time. These days, instead of making a massive to-do list every morning, I write down 1-3 things I absolutely need to do for work during quiet time. Then I put my head down to focus on those completely for the two-ish hours I have while my youngest daughter naps.  
    • Outsource! She’s a big fan of outsourcing housey things like house cleaning, laundry, grocery shopping, cooking and lawn care. Not sure I totally agree with her here. I mean, I do agree that it would be ideal, just not that it’s possible for every family; if you’re struggling to pay rent, you probably aren’t going to be hiring someone to come mow your lawn. And also some people really like cooking!
    • Schedule time for hobbies. One really great activity she advises doing is to come up with a “list of 100 dreams.” These can be anything from “run a marathon” to “always have fresh flowers in the house.” Once you know what you’d like to be doing with your leisure time— read more books, volunteer with an organization you care about, take a class— then you can choose 2-4 at a time and schedule a time for them to happen. I thought this was really key, because it’s easy to say “I wish I had more time to practice the piano,” but then spend any free time you DO have doing things like watching TV or scrolling on your phone (neither of which is nearly as rejuvenating or fun as we think). She’s especially hard on TV watching, because apparently the average American watches 20-30 hours of TV a week (enough for a part-time job!).

    One thing I appreciate about this book is that she doesn’t make it seem like it’s easy to live the life you want. It definitely takes a lot of planning and discipline to organize your days so you don’t spend time doing things like scrolling on social media, checking your email, or running errands.

    I think that no matter what your life looks like— and even if you aren’t able to implement all of her suggestions, like hiring out your laundry— we can all benefit from looking critically at how we use our time (both our leisure time and our work time). And her examples of people who have organized their life more efficiently to be able to do everything they want to were really inspirational for me (thinking specifically of the CEO mom of 6 who coaches soccer on the weekends and sleeps 7 hours a night).  

    Whether or not you’ve read the book or not, I’d love to know: what things do you want to fit in your life right now? My big ones are reading consistently, exercising most days and practicing the piano for a couple of hours each week.

    (Photo of the book by @madelinessummerlife on Instagram.)

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  • Spanish Poems for Kids

    At my elementary school in Mexico, a big part of our curriculum was memorizing poetry and then reciting it in front of the class. It actually was more than reciting– it was “declamar,” which means you had to say the poem with convincing emotion and include dramatic hand gestures, too (more like acting out the poem). The kids who were really good at this got to go compete with kids from other schools at a poetry-reciting contest.

    I was always great at memorizing the poems (my long-term memory is shot, but my short-term memory is and always has been amazing!); but with my little mouse voice, I can’t tell you how many times my teacher asked me to speak louder because nobody could hear me.

    Needless to say, I never won one of those contests. 🙂

    Two books of Spanish and bilingual poems

    However, I do think it’s pretty cool that poetry was such a big part of our education! Just the other day I explained the concept of rhyming to my four-year-old and realized that I actually say little poems to my kids all day long (“Caracol, caracol, saca tus cuernos al sol,” etc.).

    I’d love to claim that this is a byproduct of my excellent poetry education as a child, but the truth is that most of them come from one of my very favorite children’s books, ¡Pío Peep!, a classic (and beautifully illustrated) bilingual book of songs and little poems.

    One thing that I think is really great about Spanish poems for kids is that because most bilingual kids are also bicultural, knowing the sayings and rhymes of two cultures allows children to fully participate in both. Knowing the little rhymes everyone else grew up on helps you get jokes and literary references, too (if you’re Latinx, tell me you haven’t bonded with someone over “los pollitos dicen,” haha).  

    All of this is to say that April, which is National Poetry Month in the U.S., seemed like a great time to share some of our favorite books of Spanish poems for kids (a couple are bilingual!). As always, if you have favorites of your own, I would be THRILLED to have more recommendations.

    ¡Pío Peep!: Traditional Spanish Nursery Rhymes by Alma Flor Ada and F. Isabel Campoy (bilingual English/Spanish)

    I mentioned before that this book is one of my favorites! We got it as a gift at our baby shower for our first daughter and, four years later, I still pull it out all the time. It has so many of the Spanish songs and nursery rhymes I remember from my own childhood and now love singing to my kids. And in addition, I think the English translations are really well done. They’re not literal translations, which is essential especially in poetry because that way they can actually rhyme in English, too. Highly recommend!

    Colors! ¡Colores! by Jorge Luján and Piet Grobler (bilingual English/Spanish)

    This book is a great introduction to poetry because each poem is super short. Mexican poet Jorge Luján picks one color to focus on in each poem, which is set against illustrator Piet Grobler’s beautiful images. I’m not normally into non-rhyming poetry (what can I say, I’m an unsophisticated poetry-reader), but I think this book really works for me because the poems are so bite-sized.

    Book of Spanish poetry

    Historias para colorear un mosquitero blanco by Zahylis Ferro (Spanish)

    I had to include this one because I think the writing here is so beautiful! The poems in this book are written from the perspective of three generations of women: the grandmother, who lives in a rural part of the Caribbean country where she was born; the granddaughter/mother who left (migrated to the U.S. is the implication); and the great-granddaughter who returns to the ancestral home for a visit. These poems are truly lovely and nostalgic, but my favorite part is how they all center on love for the family.

    Mi primer libro de poesía by José Luis Ferris (Spanish)

    This is an illustrated anthology that includes poems from classic and contemporary  poets from Spain and Latin America. Some of the more famous ones include Amado Nervo, Gloria Fuertes, and Federico García Lorca. It’s a nice way to introduce these authors to kids as a foundation for future Spanish literature study!

    Todo es canción: Antología poética by Alma Flor Ada (Spanish)

    I think the best thing I can share about this book is my favorite poem from it:

    Poem about being bilingual by Alma Flor Ada

    I mean if that’s not an anthem for Sol Book Box / my life / my motherhood / this blog, I don’t know what is! All of the Spanish poems in here are organized by curriculum themes (parts of the body, numbers, nature, etc.), so it’s a great one for teachers or folks with a teacher-heart. 🙂

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  • 7 Fantastic Nonfiction Books in Spanish

    It’s (the end of) National Reading Month! Heyooo! I love that the U.S. has a whole month dedicated to helping kids (and adults) improve their reading skills and find a love for books. March is almost over, but that doesn’t mean the reading fun should stop!

    As you know, I also love a good Spanish children’s book roundup, because it’s rare for us to just be able to go to the library or bookstore and happen upon great books en español. It usually takes a little more planning and research to be able to find the fabulous ones, and in my experience that’s even more true with nonfiction books.

    Nonfiction book with toddler looking through cutout

    I’m thrilled to partner with Read on Arizonaand the Conversar para Aprender initiative this month to share a list of fantastic nonfiction books for little ones!

    You know I talk all the time about how important reading is. It’s a huge part of the Conversar para Aprender campaign as the fourth strategy (out of five) for helping kids’ language and literacy development.

    Reading nonfiction is ESPECIALLY important for kids though, because it helps them develop reading comprehension, build background knowledge, improve vocabulary, and develop analytical skills. In fact, the book we sent out to our Sol Book Box subscribers this month was nonfiction for these very reasons!

    The picture books below are the perfect intro to nonfiction thanks to their compelling text and kid-friendly visuals. I hope you can pick up one or a few at your local library or online to enjoy as a family!

    Spanish picture book about triceratops

    Hay un triceratops en la casa del árbol by Larousse

    We are in a dinosaur phase right now, so this book has been a big hit lately. Have you ever thought about how a triceratops would do in our modern world? He’d be great at playing soccer/fútbol because of his super strong legs… buuut he might accidentally pop the ball with his horns. I like it because it shares so many interesting facts about the triceratops in a silly, kid-friendly format.

    El pan by Francois Laurent

    El pan” is part of a series of books called “Yo sé lo que como.” Like the other books in the series, this one talks about a specific food (bread, in this case) and helps kids understand where it comes from, starting from the wheat we grow to make the flour. This book is also really great because it discusses things like “¿Cómo podemos producir el pan respetando la tierra?” I really appreciate the environmentally conscious vibe.

    La gravedad by Jason Chin

    This was an unexpected library find! It has sparse text and compelling images to take the very complex subject of gravity and make it accessible to young readers. My only complaint is that, while it asks questions like “What stops everything from floating into space?” it leaves the reader with the heavy-lifting of explaining what exactly gravity IS, which I was so not prepared to do. Fair warning so you can prep before your own small child makes you explain. 🙂

    Spanish nonfiction picture book about gravity

    En el parque de bomberos (Spanish Edition) by Marie Fordacq

    What is a firefighter’s job? What kind of things do they do each day? This interactive picture book walks us through a firefighter’s daily routine, from training to rescue missions. This was a Sol Book Box book we sent out last year. We especially love the removable figurines at the back of the book that let readers build their own fire station!

    ¿Sabes cómo funciona? by Cecile Jugla

    This book is REALLY great for curious little people because it explains the science behind 50 items we use in our everyday life. It’s divided into different sections (a few examples include: At Home, Transportation, Food, and Getting Ready). In each of those sections it teaches kids things like why we use soap, what happens at the airport, or even how cartoons are made. Highly recommended in case you need some help with answers to the many “porque’s” and “como’s” you get asked on the daily!  

    BONUS BOOKS FOR OLDER KIDS (7+)

    When I asked for recommendations on Instagram, there were a couple of suggestions for books geared toward older kids. I checked them out and they are pretty great, so I’m including in case you have older readers! Both of these are still picture books, but are written for kids in the 7-11 age range.

    Viajamos tan lejos… by Laura Knowles

    I think animal migration is such a fascinating thing! Just think of all the creatures that spend their life swimming, flying or walking across the planet. In this book, beautiful illustrations accompany the amazing migration stories of different species, including whales, albatross, leatherback turtles, monarch butterflies, and polar bears (plus lots of others).

    Sabores De America by Ana María Pavez and Constanza Recart

    This book is all about food, so it’s pretty easy to love. In it, we read about some of the foods that until modern times were consumed only on the American continent (things like corn, potatoes, tomatoes, chocolate, papaya, and avocado). This book is also awesome because for along with little facts and a history lesson behind each food, you also get a simple, kid-friendly recipe to try out.

    Mom holding nonfiction picture books

    And there you have it! I would LOVE to add to this list, so if you have suggestions for other fabulous nonfiction books your kids have loved, please leave them in the comments!

    This post is sponsored by Read On Arizona, an organization that shares my enthusiasm for helping parents raise readers.

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  • What I Learned from “The Read-Aloud Family: Making Meaningful and Lasting Connections with Your Kids” by Sarah Mackenzie

    I heard about The Read-Aloud Family a while ago because I follow the author, Sarah Mackenzie, who does the Read Aloud Revival podcast. If you’re interested in reading out loud to your kids more (or even interested in WHY you should be interested, ha), her podcast is a great place to start.

    Before I started the book, I wondered if it would be useful to me since, as the owner of a children’s book subscription service, I already highly value reading to my kids and do spend a lot of time doing it. I have to say that I still found it very motivating and inspiring!

    Hand holding the book "The Read Aloud Family"

    I think this book would be helpful for any parent, since it’s packed with ideas and encouragement for making reading out loud actually happen. So I thought I’d share a few of the key things I learned— that way you can see if you’d like to read it yourself! (Or, you know, just read this summary and call it good… that works too!)

    ABOUT THE BOOK

    The Read Aloud Family is divided into three sections. The first one covers why reading aloud to your children is important. The second section is more of a tool-kit on how, exactly, to make reading aloud happen, and also how to make it fun and meaningful. Finally, the third section is all book suggestions, divided up by ages (0-3, 4-7, 8-12, and teenagers).

    The most helpful parts for me were the first two sections, since we still mostly read in Spanish here at home, but I can see how her book lists are GOLD. I’m definitely planning on using them as we incorporate more English books into our read aloud time!

    THREE GREAT TAKEAWAYS FROM THE READ ALOUD FAMILY

    #1. If you want your family to be a reading family, you have to have books in your home. Mackenzie says that we send a clear message to our kids when we spend some of our hard-earned cash on books: they matter, they’re a part of who we are, and they’re important to our family.

    She recommends gifting your kids books for holidays and birthdays, as well as giving them a book allowance to grow their collection. I love that last part, because some of my best childhood memories are of getting to go to Barnes & Noble after a long day of shopping in El Paso, TX (3 hours from my hometown in Chihuahua, Mexico) to pick out a book to read on the drive home.

    #2. How to help books compete with screen time. Mackenzie compares a book to a watermelon (juicy, sweet, refreshing), and screen time to candy (possibly more tempting, but ultimately much less nourishing). Most kids love eating sticky, delicious watermelon, but if they’re offered a piece of candy, they’ll choose that almost every time.

    So she recommends that instead of setting certain times of day when screens are not an option, set times of day when screens are. This makes screen time the exception in your home, not the rule, which frees up the rest of the day for other things (including reading!). As she says, it’s so much easier to enjoy the watermelon when we aren’t tempted by the candy.

    #3. How to choose great books: the 3 question test. I loved this part because I often get asked how I choose books for Sol Book Box, and basically my answer is that I use her 3 question test (before I even knew about it!).

    Here are the things you should pay attention to as you figure out if a book is worth reading.

    • Images: Can you picture the scene in your mind’s eye? This works with illustrations, of course, but even if the book is just text, it should be capable of transporting you so you can see it in your own imagination.
    • Vocabulary: Do the words seem rich and varied? No dumbed-down books, please! And no badly translated books, either!
    • Curiosity: Are you interested in finding out what happens next? If not, it’s probably not worth reading.

    Whew! As you can see from this mega-post, I thought this book was really helpful. There’s a lot more I could have shared, but hopefully this summary gives some useful ideas to encourage you to read aloud to your kids!

    P.S. If you’d rather listen than read (or don’t have time to read), The Read Aloud Family also comes in audiobook form (and is narrated by the author!).

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